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Holy Matrimony

Matrimony

The Sacrament of Matrimony, by which a man and a woman form with each other an intimate communion of life and love, gives the couple the grace to love each other with the love with which Christ has loved his Church.

Arrangements for Matrimony require an initial interview with a priest or deacon and completion of the preparation program offered by St. John Vianney Parish and the Diocese of Honolulu.  A minimum preparation period of four (4) months is required, although six (6) months or more is recommended.

Marriage Preparation Guidance and Policies

Old Testament Readings for a Matrimony Mass

New Testament Readings for a Matrimony Mass

Engaged Encounter

Catholic Engaged Encounter is a weekend retreat away with other engaged couples with plenty of time alone together to plan for a sacramental marriage. It is designed to give couples planning marriage the opportunity to dialogue honestly and intensively about their prospective lives together -  their strengths and weaknesses, desires, ambitions, goals, their attitudes about money, sex, children, family, their role in the church and society - in a face-to-face way.

Click here for dates and registration information for upcoming retreat weekends in Hawaii.

Worldwide Marriage Encounter

The emphasis of Worldwide Marriage Encounter is on communication between husband and wife, who spend a weekend together away from the distractions and the tensions of everyday life, to concentrate on each other. It's not a retreat, nor a marriage clinic, nor group sensitivity. It's a unique approach aimed at revitalizing Christian Marriage. This is a time for you and your spouse to be alone together. To rediscover each other and together focus on your relationship for an entire weekend. Every marriage deserves that kind of attention!

​Click here for dates and registration information for upcoming WWME weekends in Hawaii.

St. John Vianney Catholic Church
A parish of the Diocese of Honolulu
Established 1962
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Office hours are Monday - Friday, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. 
920 Keolu Drive, Kailua, HI 96734
Phone (808) 262-8317 | Fax (808) 772-5634
[email protected]
  • Home
    • Mass Schedule
    • About Us
    • Contact Us
    • Sign-Up for E-Newsletter
    • Parish Registration
    • St. John Vianney School
    • Safe Environment
  • OUR FAITH
    • Baptism
    • Confirmation
    • Holy Eucharist
    • Reconciliation
    • Anointing of the Sick
    • Marriage
    • Holy Orders
    • Funeral
  • Becoming Catholic
    • Christian Initiation for Adults
    • Religious Education for Children and Youth >
      • Religious Education Calendars
      • Online Registration
      • Catechesis of the Good Shepherd
      • First Reconciliation
      • First Reconciliation, Confirmation and Eucharist (FRCE)
  • Parish Life
    • Sunday Bulletin >
      • 2025 Bulletin Archive
      • 2024 Bulletin Archive
    • Photo Galleries >
      • Children and Youth Programs
      • School Masses
      • Breakfast With The Bishop
      • Sacraments
      • Family Night Fun
    • Liturgical Ministries >
      • Altar Server
      • Bereavement
      • Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion
      • Hospitality
      • Lector
      • Liturgical Environment
      • Music and Choir
      • Christian Initiation Team
      • Sacristan
    • Boards, Commissions and Councils >
      • Building and Maintenance Commission
      • Finance Council
      • Liturgy Commission
      • Pastoral Council
      • School Board
      • Service Commission
      • Stewardship
    • Parish Priorities >
      • Faith Formation >
        • Sodality
      • Leadership Development
      • Marriage & Family Life >
        • Seniors Young @ Heart
      • Youth & Young Adult >
        • Girls Bible Study
        • Middle School Youth Ministry
        • High School Youth Ministry
        • Youth Leaders
        • Youth Led Mass
        • Youth Praise and Worship Band
    • Outreach Ministries >
      • Food Pantry
      • Prison Ministry
    • Organizations >
      • Knights of Columbus
      • Society of St. Vincent DePaul
  • Events
  • GIVE